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The View Outside My Window
For as long as I can remember, I've always wanted a large window over my kitchen sink with a beautiful view outside. When we did a showing at our current house, I was so excited when I saw the kitchen window overlooking the yard. I could imagine seeing my kids playing outside as I cooked dinner. When part of your view is watching you. This is Gates. I had no idea the views that I would see out that window. When I look out the window I see the blue jays and cardinals fly from
Jan 233 min read


Happy New Year
Jan 1st brings about a blank page in our book, a new chapter if you will. It's a chance to rewrite some of our story -- or is it? Maybe it's an opportunity to make our story even better! Are you someone that sets resolutions, creates a vision board or maybe has a word you focus on for the year? Maybe you don't do any of these. Last year I had a word that I focused on and it really was something that I worked to live out throughout the year. It guided my decisions and helped
Jan 92 min read


The Gift of Changing Traditions
As Christmas quickly approaches, I am beginning to reflect on the different parts of the season. Growing up, we didn’t have a lot of Christmas traditions. We always went to both of my grandmothers' houses on Christmas Day. We would string popcorn and wrap it around the tree as garland. One thing I really enjoyed as a kid was getting to open a Christmas gift on Christmas Eve. We didn’t have much money, but there was something exciting about opening one gift early. Even thou
Dec 12, 20253 min read


Managing Christmas Expectations
I don’t know about you, but I have been one of those people who set high expectations for how I think the Christmas season will go. I picture all the things that I plan going perfectly—kind of like a TV movie. My husband laughs at me and tells me that my expectations are set too high. And don’t tell him that I said this, but he is right. At Christmas, I picture the smiles and laughter as we drive around seeing Christmas lights while drinking hot chocolate. Everyone is in a
Dec 3, 20255 min read


When Prayers Aren't Answered
When I was still teaching, I remember praying constantly for the Lord to provide me with a teaching job at a different school than the one I was at. This was during a time when teaching was a highly regarded profession, and there were few job opportunities available. The available ones, you basically had to know someone. It was a very tough work environment. I would cry regularly, and many times I didn’t want to go to work. I was at that same school for seven years. I inter
Nov 21, 20253 min read


Help Me With My Unbelief
I was talking to one of my friends a while back. She’s had a deep desire that God hasn’t fulfilled, and it's left her feeling like He isn’t coming through for her. At first, I didn’t know exactly what to say to her. So I thought about what she would say to me. The truth is, she would tell me that God would come through for me, and she would believe it wholeheartedly. However, she doesn’t seem to believe it for herself. Our conversation made me realize that I have felt the s
Nov 7, 20253 min read


Finding My Strength Amidst Migraine Pain
The Pain of Migraines I can still remember one of those really tough days. The room was dark and I was all alone. I could hear my children playing outside the room with their dad. The pain I felt was so severe that tears run down the side of my face as I laid in bed. During those long and painful days, I would scream out in my mind, asking God to make the pain go away. Why did it have to hurt so badly? Why wasn't it going away? Did He hear me? Those were some of my thoughts
Oct 17, 20254 min read


I Didn't Know I Needed It
Hello hello! I hope you are enjoying your tea... or coffee. Have you ever felt God calling you to do something, and you really didn’t...
Oct 3, 20253 min read


Oh How He Cares for You!
I was walking outside with my dogs the other day when we came across a bird that had injured its wing. The poor little bird was just...
Sep 24, 20253 min read


Everything is Brighter
I was sick last week, which if you know me is not something that happens very often. Of course, my brother that doesn’t live near me...
Sep 12, 20253 min read


According to Plan
Well. ....it sure has been a little bit since I've posted on the blog. I had plans to write one blog entry per week all summer, but as...
Aug 22, 20253 min read


Trusting the Tools
Do you have a favorite tool you use? If you were to ask my youngest, I’m pretty sure he would say tape. He uses tape for all his...
Jun 27, 20253 min read


Would You Send Them?
I hope you have your tea or coffee today! I love to have my tea first thing in the morning, during the summer, before my kids get up for...
Jun 21, 20254 min read


Interruptions as God's Work
As moms, it feels like interruptions are woven into the fabric of our daily lives. Whether we’re making dinner, folding laundry, or even...
Jun 6, 20253 min read


From Waiting to Walking
A Friend for Everything Do you have one of those friends that is your go-to for everything? I do, and she's one of my best friends....
May 30, 20254 min read


All the Enemy Needs to do is Distract Us
Recently I’ve been studying the book of Isaiah. I find the more I read the Bible the more I want to read and know. I want to understand...
May 23, 20253 min read


When Blessings Go Both Ways
A few weeks ago, I met a friend for breakfast. She had just had a baby, and I thought it would be a wonderful opportunity to bless her...
May 16, 20253 min read


Helping Our Kids Be More Confident
Our kids are capable of so much more than we sometimes realize. My children constantly surprise me with what they can do and what they...
May 9, 20254 min read


Who Is This Really Serving?
Lately, I have been hearing the phrase, “This wasn’t serving me." It comes up in conversations about relationships, jobs, lifestyles---...
May 2, 20252 min read


Finding Peace In Everyday Moments
I want you to close your eyes and think about the last time you felt peace. Where were you? What were you doing? What about that moment...
Apr 25, 20252 min read
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